
Marriage advice were written by our family and friends at Eileen's bridal showers. See if you can figure out which ones were written by the guys.
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- Have Fun Together
- Don't waste time fighting over meaningless things...life's way too short.
- Get a dog. They're so much fun. Your cats will love it!
Take a moment to stop and look around and enjoy each other.
Talk to each other! (The good and no-so-good things in life.)
- Hug each other every day
- Kiss each other every day
- Say "I Love You" every day
- Never be afraid to say "I'm sorry"
- Be the first to forgive
- Finally and most important:
Enjoy Each Other!
always listen to each others needs and learn to compromise
- Enjoy life, friends and family to the fullest as if today is your last day!
- Have no regrets
- Forgive each other for the little things that at the time may seem big (but believe me, they're not!)
- Stay being friends
- Keep your sense of humor
- Respect each other
- Have communication always open
- Love the family of your mate
-the virtue of patience
As the years pass on, patience is one advice that has worked for me. Whether it's time spent together or time spent apart, it's how much you're willing to give of yourself, how much you're able to bite your tongue, so in every sense of the word, patience is important.
Whatever happens, just keep your "cool" and remembver the word respect...in short, the Golden Rule!
- Look at the big picture.
- Be sweet to one another everytime/all the time
- Don't take each other for granted
- You are two people traveling together in life.
- Believe in God - and have him be a part of life together.
- Love one another all the time
Marriage is not always roses. Each one hs to be patience with each other. For a lasting marriage it has to be "a give and take" and "communication with each other." Good luck with both of you.
Never let the sun set on a quarrel -- no matter who may be to blame!
Communication, compromise and respect for each other can overcome insurmountable obstacles.
Keep your home in peace and love.
- Learn to accept each other's strength and weaknesses.
- Do not think you can change each other just because you got married!
- Expect surprises everyday. You will discover new things about each other continuously.
always kiss each other before going to work and before going to bed, and say "I love you" every opportunity you have (kiss each other even when all your teeth have fallen)
Have kids right away. Don't wait.
Respect each other always, say I love you before going to bed.
Keep communicating, sharing and caring!
-be loving to each other all the time
-patience works well - so try to be one
-decide right away who will be the "boss" (Eileen kumyari lang)
Marriage is not always a smooth sailing. It takes hard work, a lot of giving, patience and lots of love. It is a lifelong partnership.
Always deal with each other with a 50-50% proposition. No more - no less.
Make sure you practice LOVE as an action more than just an emotion.
Always be caring, thinking and giving in your relationship to one another, this eventually results in mutual respect and affection.
Never go to bed still mad at each other, even if it will take you (in the) morning still arguing.
Never argue in front of your parents.
King Arthur Said - How to handle a women - simply love her.
For John - have a hair cvut before the wedding.
For John: wait - wait & wait -
WELCOME to the Misery Club
Patience, patient & patience to each other.
Be kind to each other.
- For Eileen - Stand by your man. It's a give and take relationship. Be understanding, honor your husband but not submissive.
- For John - Let Eileen handle payment of your bills. This will leson your headache. Always be faithful to your wife, and raise a dozen (12) children.
Marriage is love, it takes two to tango and appreciate the good things and the bad. Enjoy the moment as it come you and you alone will make it go.
The biggest impediment to a successful relationship comes where one dwells on the other's imperfections and constantly strives to make them vanish. You must learn to accept each other as you are - with all your unique qualitiies and imperfections - live life to the fullest for each other. It is going to be a rough road ahead, so you must learn to negotiate your conflicts but always love and honor each other. Strive never to let the sun go down with your anger!
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